# The Beach Haven Counselling > Couples, discernment, grief and trauma counselling in Clarkson ## Posts - [Your Relationship Has Its Own Personality — Understanding the System You've Built Together](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/your-relationship-has-its-own-personality-and-its-shaping-you-both/): There's a question I sometimes ask couples early in therapy that tends to stop them in their tracks. - [The Pursuer-Withdrawer Cycle: Why It's Not About You Being "Too Much" or Them Being "Shut Down"](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/you-are-not-too-much-understanding-pursuer-withdrawer-cycle-in-relationships/): Mia had been told her whole life that she was "a lot." - [Why You Keep Having the Same Fight — And What's Really Going On Beneath It](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/why-you-keep-having-the-same-fight-and-how-to-break-the-cycle/): Sarah and James came to see me after seven years together. They were exhausted. - [Family Relationship Counselling in Joondalup: Help with Conflict, Boundaries, and Repair](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/family-relationship-counselling-in-joondalup-help-with-conflict-boundaries-and-repair/): Family relationships can be deeply meaningful and deeply complicated. - [Couples Counselling: When to Start, and How to Know It’s Working](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/couples-counselling-when-to-start-and-how-to-know-its-working/): If you and your partner keep having the same argument, feel more like housemates than a team, or you’re worried things are drifting too far apart, you’re not alone. - [I can’t sleep - how do I cope with grief at night?](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/i-cant-sleep-how-do-i-cope-with-grief-at-night/): When you are grieving, night-time can feel especially hard. During the day, there may be distractions, responsibilities, and other people around. - [How to Keep Going When You’re Grieving](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/how-to-keep-going-when-youre-grieving/): When you are coping with loss, everyday life can suddenly feel far too heavy and can leave you wondering how to keep going when you're grieving. - [Why Do I Feel Guilty After Someone Dies?](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/why-do-i-feel-guilty-after-someone-dies/): If you are asking, why do I feel guilty after someone dies?, you are not alone. - [Am I Grieving the Right Way?](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/am-i-grieving-the-right-way/): If you have found yourself asking, “Am I grieving the right way?”, you are not alone. It is one of the most common questions people ask after a loss. - [How Long Does Grief Last? (What to Expect and How to Get Help)](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/how-long-does-grief-last-what-to-expect-and-how-to-get-help/): Wondering how long grief lasts? Find out the typical timeline, factors that shape your grief, and when to seek support. - [How to Support Your Family Through Terminal Illness](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/how-to-support-your-family-through-terminal-illness/): Find practical way to support your family through terminal illness including emotional responses, tips and resources for Australian families. - [Grief is a Response to Any Loss, Not Just Death](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/grief-is-a-response-to-any-loss/): When most people think of grief, they imagine the pain of losing a loved one. But the truth is, grief is a response to any loss, not just death. - [Healing After Loss: A Guide for Navigating Grief in All Its Forms](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/healing-after-loss-a-guide-for-navigating-grief-in-all-its-forms/): Grief is a universal experience, yet it often feels incredibly personal and isolating, and healing after loss can feel impossible. - [Anticipatory Grief: When a Loved One Has a Terminal Illness](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/anticipatory-grief-when-a-loved-one-has-a-terminal-illness/): Struggling with Anticipatory Grief? Learn to recognize the complex signs of pre-loss grief while a loved one is terminally ill. Find compassionate coping strategies and support for caregivers here. - [How Grief Counselling Can Help You Heal After Loss](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/how-grief-counselling-can-help-you-heal-after-loss/): When you lose someone or something precious to you, the pain can feel overwhelming. ## Pages - [Cookies Policy](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/cookies-policy/): This document sets out the Cookies Policy of Tracy Rattray ABN 24 894 831 309 trading as ‘The Beach Haven’ (referred to in this cookies policy as ‘we’, ‘us’, or ‘our’). - [Website Terms and Conditions](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/website-terms-and-conditions/): These terms and conditions (Terms) apply when you use this website, www.thebeachhaven.com.au (Website). - [The Therapy Cats](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/the-therapy-cats/): Meet Riggs and Momo - They work part time and are completely optional. - [Personal Growth Counselling](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/personal-growth-counselling/): For when you've spent so long looking after everyone else that you've lost track of yourself. - [Grief and Trauma Counselling](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/grief-and-trauma-counselling/): Support for loss that hurts, and for loss that frightens. Specialised grief and trauma counselling, including EMDR, under one roof. - [Home](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/): Space to talk. Clarity to move forward. Expert guidance when you need it most. - [Clinical Supervision](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/clinical-supervision/): Clinical supervision in Perth. Group and individual sessions. ACA and PACFA. Specialising in Trauma, Grief and Couples Therapy. Book Now - [Discernment Counselling Australia](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/discernment-counselling-australia/): Structured, decision focused process for when one partner is considering divorce. In-person in Clarkson or online across Australia. Book online - [Trauma Counselling](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/trauma-emdr-therapy-in-clarkson/): Trauma counselling in Perth using EMDR therapy for PTSD, childhood trauma & anxiety. Sessions in Clarkson or online across Australia. Start healing now - [About Elanie De Klerk](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/about-elanie-de-klerk/): Meet Elanie de Klerk, a specialist counsellor at The Beach Haven in Clarkson. Supporting individuals and couples with trauma, EMDR and relationship issues. - [Room Hire at The Beach Haven](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/room-hire-at-the-beach-haven/): Professional rooms for allied health professionals and coaches in Joondalup. - [Counselling After Separation](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/counselling-after-separation/): Support through the grief, the practicalities and the question of who you are now. Counselling after separation is available in person in Clarkson or online. - [Support through Terminal Illness](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/support-through-terminal-illness/): A terminal illness affects more than the person who has received the diagnosis. - [Anticipatory Grief Support](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/anticipatory-grief-support/): Anticipatory grief is the grief that can begin before a death has occurred. - [Bereavement](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/bereavement/): Losing someone important can affect every part of life. Grief can feel overwhelming, disorienting, lonely, or simply hard to put into words. - [Family Relationship Counselling](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/family-therapy-services/): Family therapy in Perth for conflict, parenting stress, grief and family alienation. Meet a family therapist in Clarkson or online. Schedule a session. - [Couples Counselling in Clarkson](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/couples-counselling-in-clarkson/): Couples counselling in Clarkson for conflict, communication breakdown, affair recovery and emotional distance. In-person or online. Book now. - [Grief Support Groups in Joondalup, Perth](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/grief-support-groups-in-joondalup-perth/): Join a safe and confidential grief support group for adults navigating grief and loss. - [Resources](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/resources/): Click here for helpful tools, resources and articles to support individuals and families navigate grief and loss and begin the journey towards healing. - [Blog](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/blog/): Explore expert articles, tips, and resources from The Beach Haven. The Beach Haven offers specialised support in Grief Counselling, Couples Therapy and Family Relationship Counselling. In-person services are available in Joondalup, WA, or online throughout Australia - [About Hub](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/about/): Two counsellors, one calm space. - [Grief Counselling](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/grief-counselling-in-clarkson/): Grief counselling in Perth with a specialist grief counsellor. Support after a death, illness, divorce or other loss, in Clarkson or online. Reserve time. - [Helpful Resources](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/helpful-resources/): A beautiful adult mindfulness colouring book and journal to capture your thoughts, your feelings, and your journey through grief. - [Fees and Booking](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/fees-and-booking/): Explore The Beach Haven's affordable pricing for grief counseling, end-of-life doula services, and support groups. Save 10% on 6-session packages. Learn more today. - [End-of-Life Services](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/end-of-life-services/): Join our grief workshops and support groups to connect with others and find healing. Explore legacy projects, corporate training, and group therapy sessions. Learn more and sign up today. - [Privacy Policy](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/privacy-policy/): This document sets out the privacy policy of Tracy Rattray ABN 24 894 831 309 trading as ‘The Beach Haven’ (referred to in this privacy policy as ‘we’, ‘us’, or ‘our’). - [Who We Treat](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/who-we-treat/): Heal after loss with our grief counselling services. We provide individual, couples, and family therapy to help you navigate grief and rebuild your life. Available in-person, online, or walk-and-talk therapy. - [Contact](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/contact/): Contact a counsellor in Clarkson for counselling services across Perth. Call, email or book online, with Saturday appointments available. Get in touch. - [Bookings](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/bookings/): Flexible online booking available for individual, couples, or family therapy. In-person counselling in Clarkson, online counselling throughout Australia. - [Services](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/services/): Explore our services including grief and loss counselling for individuals, couples and families; specialized grief support and community support and group programs. Our expert counsellors are here to support you as you navigate grief, loss and life-altering changes. - [Life Transitions](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/life_transitions/): Change and loss are not always about death. Significant life transitions such as chronic injury, job loss, or moving away from your home or culture are often accompanied by profound grief. - [About Tracy Rattray](https://thebeachhaven.com.au/about-tracy-rattray/): Meet Tracy Rattray, a specialised counsellor working with individuals and couples, including couples on the brink of divorce. Based in Clarkson ## Optional - [Agent (MCP protocol)](websites-agents.hostinger.com/thebeachhaven.com.au/mcp) [comment]: # (Generated by Hostinger Tools Plugin)