Hi! I'm Elanie de Klerk
I’m a trauma-informed clinical counsellor based in Perth, specialising in trauma counselling, childhood trauma, EMDR therapy, and relationship counselling. With many years of personal and professional experience, I support individuals and couples in working through emotional pain, relationship challenges, and past experiences that continue to impact daily life.
I hold a Bachelor of Counselling, an Advanced Diploma of Counselling & Family Therapy, and a Graduate Diploma of Counselling & Integrative Psychotherapy, with specialised training in EMDR therapy, Schema Therapy, and Gottman Method couples counselling.
Counselling Support
What It’s Like To Work With Me
A compassionate, client-centred space where we move at a pace that feels safe for you — with evidence-based tools to support your healing and growth.
Trauma-informed care
Everything we do is paced to feel safe for you. I understand how trauma lives in the body and the mind — and I’ll never push you faster than you’re ready to go.
Evidence-based
I use proven, evidence-based therapeutic approaches including EMDR, CBT, Schema Therapy, and Adlerian Therapy to help you move forward.
Personalised to you
No two people heal in the same way. We’ll shape a plan that fits your goals, your pace, and your life, with practical steps you can take between sessions.
What to expect in the first session...
01.
We clarify what’s brought you in – We’ll explore what’s happening right now and how it’s affecting you. I create space for you to share your story at a pace that feels safe for you.
02.
We identify patterns – We’ll look at the experiences, triggers, and cycles that keep showing up, and what you need to feel safer and more grounded.
03.
We agree on next steps – We’ll shape a practical way forward using approaches suited to you, with clear steps that feell manageable and meaningful.
Supporting
- Trauma and childhood trauma
- EMDR therapy
- Anxiety & emotional wellbeing
- Couples & Relationships
- Parenting support
Work With Me
Trauma & Childhood Trauma Counselling | EMDR Therapy
Trauma can affect how you feel, think, and relate to others — often in ways that are hard to explain. My role is to help you process these experiences safely, so they no longer control your present life:
- Childhood trauma
- PTSD and complex trauma
- Anxiety and emotional overwhelm
- Low self-worth and self-esteem
- Relationship difficulties
Couples & Relationship Counselling
With three decades of marriage and raising a family, I understand firsthand how relationships evolve, stretch, and require ongoing care and intention. I help partners build a strong, lasting connection by:
- Improvng communication
- Rebuilding trust
- Navigating conflict in a healthy way
- Understanding attachment styles and emotional needs
My approach integrates practical tools, including communication strategies, emotional safety, and relationship repair.
Evidence-Based Therapy Approaches
I use proven, evidence-based therapies to help reduce emotional triggers, improve coping, and support long-term healing. Depending on your needs, I may draw from:
- EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation & Reprocessing)
- Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
- Schema Therapy
- Attachment-focused therapy
- Adlerian Therapy
Who I support at The Beach Haven
Individuals
I work with teenagers and adults navigating trauma, childhood trauma, anxiety, emotional pain, or significant life transitions
Couples
I offer relationship counselling for partners at any stage — whether you’re seeking to reconnect, rebuild, or navigate parenting together.
Private Health Rebate
I am a registered provider with Bupa, Medibank, AHM, HCF, and the ARHG Group. Private health rebates may apply. You do not need a referral to book
Support in Mindarie, Joondalup and Online
I offer professional counselling services in Mindarie and surrounding North Perth suburbs, as well as secure online sessions across Perth and Australia.
Book an Appointment
Book online below, or feel free to call or email us if you need help making a booking